~ What you believe about Men will dictate the experience you have with Men ~
Inside the Devotional Woman container we are currently exploring our deepest most uncomfortable beliefs about men.
When this conversation arises, sometimes it can be easy to stay on the surface and think all is well, yet every time I find that lurking in the deepest wells of our unconscious every woman has some poisonous thoughts festering.
And
this is precisely where the gold nuggets of transformation for her truly lie.
Beliefs like:
- Men aren’t Safe
- Men aren’t Trustworthy
- Men don’t care about me
- Men always leave me…
This is reflected in the woman who is always chosen second or ends up in open relationships when deep down she is Yearning to be fully chosen and claimed.
The woman who wants a loving partner but doesn’t feel safe enough to really give all of herself even if the right man is standing in front of her.
The woman who is so focused on having hot attraction and chemistry that she is overlooking healthy men all around her, because she is unconsciously seeking men who don’t care about her or will leave her.
These are just a few examples of how most women hold some kind of deep wounding around men. And the truth is, what we believe will ALWAYS have an impact.
Directly or indirectly, it cannot NOT affect our body, our energy, our heart, our nervous system and therefore by extension our capacity to engage or show up authentically with the opposite sex.
Until we are ready to really FEEL these deep hurts, pains and fears, they will impact us and our relationships indefinitely.
This is the work of the Embodied woman ready to liberate her shadows.
This is the work I do with all women.
This is what I am heart, body and soul HERE FOR.
Let us heal our hearts, face our projections and remember the truth of our nature…That men are here to love, serve and protect us.
If only we can learn how to let them.
But first ladies, we must learn to face ourselves and all the ways we block, resist or avoid his love care or devotion. And then the real work can begin.
Some rainy day musings from me.
yours in Devotion to love, Bree
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