Why you need to stop Counselling your Man

by | May 7, 2025 | Relationships, Sexuality + Tantra | 0 comments

You say you want a strong masculine man…
Yet in reality you aren’t treating him like a man if you are always offering him your advice 😱
Stop treating him like a boy who needs a therapist 🛑
You can’t mother him and expect him to act like a MAN. A strong man will not tolerate such behaviour infact, it will repel him.

Kings RISE in the presence of Queens.

So how are you treating the men in your life?

Like a prince who is still learning?

Like a wounded bird that needs fixing?
Or like the flawed wounded guy who still needs you to ‘help him’ ??
This is a stance of huge disrespect for a man, and it will never help him to hold the frame that you are wanting.
EVER.
It will simply make him soft, weak and even MORE reliant on mummies praise..
Or push you away as he’s sick of being parented and coddled by you 🤮

WAYS we do this as women

  • being his therapist and counsellor
  •  always asking how he is feeling – offering solutions
  •  trying to solve problems for him
  • not letting him be in his own stages of learning /discomfort.
The biggest danger is when a woman regularly counsels / directs a man it will KILL the polarity between you.
She is holding the Leading frame, and will eventually resent him for it… as will He.
Babe, I get it..
You want to be ‘helpful’.
But if you keep trying to be his therapist, friend or carer, you are perpetuating this dynamic instead of letting him FIND HIS OWN WAY.
Which actually prevents him from claiming his own POWER 💪
Sure he will make mistakes and fuck up on occasion…
But this is the Quest ALL HERO’s must walk.
In order that he come to know himself.
This is his Rite of Passage.
He has faced the challenges of the world alone, slayed the dragon
and found his power.
That is the moment that he discovers:
He has got HIMSELF and thus,
He has got YOUR back.
The ONLY respectful time to offer advice to a strong capable masculine Man
is when he ASKS FOR IT
OR when you first ask HIS permission to share your thoughts.
That is all.
The end.
So, do you want a Man or a boy?
Then learn to treat him accordingly.
I can help with these things..
Explore my Devotional Woman program (now open for Rolling enrollment) or reach out and lets chat further.
❤
yours in devotion to love & eros,
Bree

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Bree Taylor Molyneaux | Erotic Liberator & Intimacy Coach for women, BrisbaneAbout the author

Bree Taylor Molyneaux | Erotic Liberator & Devotional Union Guide

For 25 years Bree has been immersed in the fields of psychosomatics, trauma, mindset and adult relationships. Passionate about helping women heal their relationships to masculine men, Bree guides you to explore where erotic liberation, devotion and sacred union all merge.

A trauma informed Clinical Hypnotherapist and qualified Embodiment facilitator Bree has studied with many world class relationship specialists including Michaela Boehm and John Wineland. An experienced facilitator with a reputation for her grounded seamless facilitation and potent ritual spaces, Bree is an emerging leader in the field of Embodied Intimacy in Australia.

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