The Well-Fucked Woman

by | Dec 4, 2023 | Relationships, Self-care, Sexuality + Tantra | 1 comment

What is a Well-Fucked Woman?

You know those moment after blissful lovemaking when you feel life force surging through your body..

when you care not for the problems of the mind
when you are more interested in the here and now than the To-do’s of tomorrow??
“THAT is a feeling of being well-fucked“
And what if you could access that state beyond just the post sex afterglow?
The appeal of the well-fucked woman is she has learnt how to stay connected to this place in herself..
her pleasure & receptivity
her softness
her feminine allure
her erotic life-force
She has learnt to let all of life’s experiences become an invitation to open her, instead of closing her…
She is so tethered to her own state of being that she also knows how to access or drop into her own surrender, because of how darn good it feels for her to do so.

Traits of the well-fucked woman

She is soft, open, receptive and welcoming
Connected to her body, her pleasure, her life-force
Tender, available and anchored into her own body
She has love in her eyes and the divine in her heart
She is soft yet powerful
Surrendered but never helpless
AND
Because she is connected to the life force within her she makes decisions differently.
She is attuned to the pulse of her womb
She follows the moment by moment pull of love in her life
And she chooses her bodies YES over her minds NO

Her state of self surrender is refined.. like fine wine she has cultured these parts of herself over time and learnt what combinations really work for her.

This means she can access this state of full body receptivity in many ways;
through exploring sexual energy with her lover
through co-regulating with nature
through self connection, embodiment or self pleasure practices
EVEN better this state of being for a woman is actually natural our most natural one when we haven’t been distorted by life’s challenges (think about the pure radiance of a young girl who feels safe playing in the garden, then deepen than with the maturity of a woman who knows herself, her pleasure and her innate power)..
Yet for many women today learning to feel safe enough to allow ourselves to enter this state of deeply embodied being takes practice, willingness and lots of vulnerability.
But the secret here is – her softness is not weakness.
It is actually her strength.
Through cultivating a healthy connection to her own pleasure and cultivating her own inner state of safety, she is simply being more and bringing more of what life intended for her to be.

The well-fucked woman is Shakti in human form

Life expressing itself through her body.. for no reason at all except for the pure and utter joy of it.
Sure, she may contract on occasion when life feels hard or challenging, but the woman with this kind of self awareness has the power to soften again when she chooses.
She is not a victim of life’s circumstances, she is life remembering itself AS LIFE.
Once we as women learn how to dance with the current of life moving through us – instead of closing it down – we can truly open into this powerful force and it creates its own momentum.
Seeing a woman move through the world who is this connected to her own life-force, her own pleasure, her own inner gifts…
THAT is nothing short of magnetic.
And that is something the well-fucked woman has in spades – magnetism oozes out of her pores like perfume from a plant.
And it is authentic.
She is not putting on a show
She is revealing her gifts to the world..
That is what being a Well-Fucked Woman means to me.

Have you heard of this concept? Experienced it? Curious to know more?

 

Yours in love
xxx Bree
💗

 

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About the author

Bree Taylor Molyneaux | devotionBree Taylor Molyneaux is a Brisbane based Intimacy and Embodiment coach.  An emerging leader in adult relationships, she specialises in Embodiment, Self intimacy, Sacred relating and living a devotional life.

An experienced Facilitator and coach with a background in trauma & hypnotherapy, she brings over 25 years of industry experience to her private clients, group programs and workshops.

Based near Brisbane Bree offers regular intimacy workshops events & couples retreats, has many online support resources including self-paced Embodiment courses + audio products available on iTunes. 

 

1 Comment

  1. Nicole
    Nicole on June 14, 2024 at 8:44 am

    Hi Bree, ooooooo I love this juicy piece. I know these feelings you speak of and the energy one exudes as a well-fucked woman (whether you’re bringing that pleasure to yourself or in a partnership/with lovers). It can be really hard when life brings challenges your way- especially as your body changes with ageing- so growing with that rather than fighting it seems important. Keep up the good work!

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